Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Happy Birthday Mom!

I am typing as fast as I can so I can have this posted before midnight!!! It has been just crazy around here and after posting the give-a-way I ended up at the Emergency Room to pick up Auntie Peggy who had succumbed to the GI bug in a baaad way during the night! After 4 liters of I.V. fluids and some anti-nausea medications they decided she was up to recovering in her own bed. Then in the midst of our latest snow event, I had to pick up Julia, Andrew, and Alyssa from school and bring them back to my house until homework was done! After pushing out a double order of scones and a meatloaf dinner I then had to waken Patrick who had been called back in to work the midnight shift due to the snow!! After dinner was cleared, homework completed, and Patrick safely packed off to work I had to drive Andrew and Alyssa home, swing by my Mom's to drop off her birthday wish (the scones) and then go back home to shovel...I work first thing in the morning...theoretically... Back to the point of the post! February 9, 1928 marks the entry into this world of George and Margaret Sullivan's firstborn daughter! Loretta Anne Sullivan was one of those eldest siblings upon which birth order studies are proven. Combining great intelligence with single minded determination which lead to the kind of legends found in the most revered of novels. This gritty little girl child at the age of 4 heard the parish priest announce the impending school registration date and immediately started badgering her parents to enroll her. Thinking they could end the assault, her parents told her that since she was not yet six she had to get permission from the pastor. The very next Sunday she jumped from her spot on the end of a pew to plant herself in front of the exiting pastor and make her pitch!! Thinking he was avoiding the issue he gave her a conditional yes....she had to bring her first semester report card to the rectory to prove she could keep up with the six year old classmates. Oooooh, you just don't dare this woman to do anything!! She is a classic 'game on' kind of competitor!!!Needless to say she was always two years younger than her classmates right through high school graduation. This would be a picture of her from just after the start of her school career. She claims that her competitive nature was as a result of being the 'different' child in the family. She was the 'bony blond' to her darker and chubbier younger brother and sister. Let's just say there are many of us who dispute her premise...sadly because the competitive gene has been clearly passed down...okay so my family can stop laughing now!!! World War II came to an end and Loretta left her secretarial job to marry and raise a family. Raising a family would be an understatement!!! I remember at one point in high school, during a smart alack phase, counting out how many months my Mom had spent pregnant. Counting the miscarriages and my brother born premature who died at 1 day old, I remember being incredulous that she had spent 10 YEARS of her life at some stage of pregnancy!?!? Then , as if seven of us were not enough, my Mom applied to be a foster parent with our state's DCFS AND Catholic Charities!! 63 more children spent a portion of their young lives under our roof....yeah, 63! Two of those foster children stayed for good by way of adoption. So no need to say anything to her when we decided to pursue that avenue to build our family!! She was there at the airport (it was allowed in those days!!) to welcome both of her Guatemalan granddaughters home and was the first one to embrace them in the family...besides Patrick and I that is. She was also all of the grandchildren's first and best baby sitter!! When Julia was one I had to return to work and my Mom stepped right up! Her strength declines with every passing day these days, but back then she could have a hefty Julia on her hip as she carried a full gallon of milk up the stairs from the car....she was 75!!!! She has always been sure to make every birthday and special occasion for all 13 or her grandchildren!! She has also never been one to let the grandchildren off the hook for remembering her special days...or her children for that matter! So even though the 'party' is tomorrow, we were sure to stop by today with a batch of scones that she had been 'hinting' about wanting for a week now! It gets harder and harder to see how much of a toll that Father Time is exacting on her physical being these days and the shock I feel every time my whip smart Mom 'forgets' one of my daughter's names goes right to the core of my soul. Ma, Mommy, Mom, Aunt Retta, Loretta, Grandma are all titles she has carried while on her mission to carve the bedrock of our family. As I stand here on the solid slab of family that she has made for us I feel a deep apprehension that her mantle must now be passed to my generation. She has set a veeeeery high bar and I cannot say with certainty that anyone of us is ready to step in...as she has always done...with a gritty determination that all will work in the end! Much to our benefit, that overwhelming job can be made bearable by the MANY family members she has raised so very well! Happy 82nd Birthday Mom..and many, many more!!!!!!!

And the winner is......

Boy do I have a bunch of posts backed up waiting for this give-a-way to end!!! I didn't want to 'bury' the freebie post so I've been holding off posting a fish update, a horse and bull filled Saturday, the recipe of the week post and a tribute to my Mom! Brace yourself because they are going to all show up at once...then again that is my usual modus operandi (: Well, the extended family have been struck down with some kind of gastrointestinal bug so my big plan to have a grand prize drawing with the cousins helping draw the winning name was scrapped! As I am one of the few left standing this is how it went down... I wrote the names of the eight contestants on equal sized slips of paper and placed them in a bowl. Then after a few good shakes I nabbed a veeeery unwilling Patrick to pull the winning slip! (He had just come in from working a double shift and was embarrassed at his scruffy appearance. Besides, he had no idea about the give away and wasn't sure of what I was charging him to do!) Drum roll please........ Vanessa!!!!! I don't envy her trying to decide which of her little belles is going to be the lucky recipient!! She just needs to e-mail me with her choices so the partying can begin!!!!

Friday, February 5, 2010

FFF- Twist

Usually FFF stands for Favorite Foto Friday. Today I am throwing in an alternative meaning! This officially marks my First Friday Freebie!!! So many of my blogging buddies have been offering give a ways that I thought I'd join the fun! As with all of the gift give a ways there are some 'rules' so here goes: 1) Followers (and lurkers!) have to leave a comment to be eligible! 2) As part of the comment I would like you to answer a few questions; a) Do you shop on either eBay or Etsy and if yes which do you prefer? b) Do you buy any of your child's (childrens') clothing from these sites? c) What types of clothing are you most likely to buy and in what price range? d) What size(s) do you look through on these sites? e) What keywords do you type in most frequently? So from the comments I will randomly select one lucky winner who will receive the following items in order to be sure to celebrate our family's happiest holiday! One St. Patrick's themed outfit, co-ordinating socks, and glitter shamrock tattoos! The shirt can be long or short sleeved and in black or white...and YES I can even do it in adult sizes! The bottoms will be made from EUC denim of your choice...skirt, short, capri, or long pants but are only in children's sizes 12mos-14. You will also be able to choose from several fabric choices as shown below! While the rest of you are gearing up for Valentine's Day and Mardi Gras, we are already looking forward to St. Patrick's Day! You see, not only am I of Irish-American decent but my husband was born and raised in County Kerry, Ireland and bears the name of the celebrated saint, Patrick!!! Even the girls respond to the "what nationality are you?" questions with "Irish-Guatemalan" (: In honor of my mother's 82nd birthday next Tuesday, I will do the drawing and have the result posted by 6pm CST February 9th. Ready, set, COMMENT!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Shameless Pitch!

The scope of the tragedy in Haiti has so overwhelmed us of late that the help so needed in Guatemala seems to have taken to the back seat. One of the most proven ways to end the cycle of poverty in any country of the world has been through education. To that point I am shamelessly making a pitch here and on Facebook for an education project currently underway in Guatemala. My friend Vanessa has been traveling to the Panajachel region regularly over the past couple of years bringing food, medicines, and Project Santa to as many people as she can as a way of 'giving back' to the birth place of her daughter Arianna. (See the Shoe Drive link at the side of my blog----->) This May she will be returning and the hope had been to paint, making book shelves, and loading those shelves with books for a library in the village school of San Antonio Palopo . The director(aka principal) has had a dream for his children to have access to books of any kind and was working with Vanessa towards that goal. Then in one of those moments when you don't know whether to rejoice or break down and cry, he found that his student body of 215 suddenly became 500+ when registration day came this past January!!! The room designated for the library is now crowded with additional students and there is still not enough room for those that wish to attend school! The principle has offered up his teeny, tiny closet sized office for the proposed library project in May because he is so desperate to achieve literacy in this destitute population. Now what the school REALLY needs is some generous sponsors to provide $6000 needed to build two new classrooms and a proper library. In the meantime, Vanessa has organized with the good people of Usbourne Books for a book sale to benefit the school library!! This is a win/win kind of book sale. You see, you can either go online and order Spanish language books which can be shipped directly to Vanessa for the library OR you can order books for yourself and the sale generates a % credit towards free books for the school. Books such as these which are on the Usbourne site!! Just imagine the excitement the children of that school will feel to hold a real book in their hands for the first time!! By the way, did I forget to mention that the nearest public library to this school is an hour and a half car ride away...and these are kids who often barely eat let alone have access to a car!!!!! So if you have a few extra aid dollars left in your budget would you please consider visiting http://www.ubah.com/BF37599 ? And if my some miracle my words are touching the heart of someone with $6000 extra dollars in their budget, would you consider sponsoring the new wing of the San Antonio Palopo school at Heart4Children which is the Shoe Drive link at the side of my blog??? Thanks for listening.

Way Back Wednesday!

July 2001- Rare role reversal when Mari had the happy smile and Julia was serious!!!! One of me from July 1993!!!!........ With my sister Jen at an Irish dance competition in Albany, N.Y. showing off a new dress I had just finished for her!

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Day 2 Update

Nacho and what's his name have survived 24 hours!!! Nacho is...um...worrisome. He likes to pretty much stay tucked behind the water filter and eats very little in our sight. This would be Julia's fish, of course!! Mari's fish is bigger and it's obvious why! Justin Bieber will eat anything thrown in the tank. Speaking of which, the water is already less than crystal clear! Now I know it was only a $20 tank and filter but I thought it might work for longer than a DAY?!?!? So I'm thinking that some little girls might be sneaking extra food into the tank when I'm not looking! Never thought I'd have to lock up the fish food!!!

Monday, February 1, 2010

Drum roll pleeeeaaassseee......

Tah Dah!!!!!!!!! The Mahoney Family would like to introduce you to Nacho (on the right) and Justin Bieber (guess who's fish that is?!?!?). Our 'free' carnival fish which retail for 13 cents a piece have officially cost $10 each to this point. Given the Flounder saga, I did invest in a $19.99 packaged tank deal this time around. I'm hoping the included filter will reduce the frequency of tank cleanings! Should either/both of these fish go 'belly up' in short order I have agreed to a replacement plan since we are talking a whopping 26 cent investment. I will try to give this shot at pet ownership a real go this time. Within minutes of meeting Nacho, Julia did sigh and say, "I wish they'd invent a fish you could take out and play with!" Man that kid knows how to yank Mommy's heart strings. Meanwhile, there's a betting pool on how long Justin Bieber will keep his name. I'm thinking this fish will acquire a new name every couple of months or so....unless I can sell her on my Velveeta suggestion?!?!