Monday, January 31, 2011

New!

It is a NEW week and we started it off celebrating a NEW little cousin's christening!


A NEW little girl who took years of love and many, many, many trips to the medical center to arrive safe and healthy into those adoring arms!



I took MANY pictures with mixed success. 


Ones of the ceremony.

Of the godparents!



Pictures of the princess as she is dressed and comforted.


Doting Aunties....

and techie toddlers.

After loading them onto my computer I noticed one tiny little thing.......there were NONE of my long hoped for and special delivery little girls!!! Ahh, the babies always get all the attention, don't they?


Welcome and God bless little Mary Agnes!!!

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Me, oh my!

The week isn't quite over and I'm already exhausted! New little cousin being christened tomorrow so I'll have to dig deep in order to finish with a flourish....but I'm dragging tonight.

Besides the hundreds of little mouths I examined this week, I had driving duties to and from school, dance classes, grocery stores, and orthodontist appointments. I had lunches to pack and dinners to make...thank goodness for Thursday's Family Night which gave me one night off because Auntie Peggy handled the cooking by herself!! The laundry room beckoned louder than the sewing room and the driveway required several passes with the shovel this week. Just when the looming weekend gave others the promise of a respite from ones daily chores I had two events that were simply NOT to be brushed off!

Time for the Mom in this house to have her own little play date! As far as play dates go when you get to be my age anyhow.


My sister-in-law/BFF Agnes and I decided to surprise our friend Gina with a lunch date! Gina is housebound recovering from major surgery and sorely needed the conversation and laughs. Helped the mood when dessert appeared....


because Friday also happened to be Agnes' birthday! The three of us Musketeers, with a 22 year age spread, used to spend days and nights together just a few years back as we toiled over dance costumes for insane deadlines. Now we have gone our separate ways and the reunion was long over due. I only wish the two of them lived out in the suburbs so I could 'drop in' more often!!


Guess what those tickets in Julia's pocket mean???

Yes, it was the school carnival today. Had to come home from my play date yesterday to get  a German Chocolate cake made to deliver early this morning for the Cake Walk. Then I had two teens to get there in time to run a game....


because they have service hours to fulfill for confirmation. Andrew is in the home stretch but Mari has another year of volunteering before her confirmation!

He is such a goof-ball!!

Great news is that the school did away with the goldfish game!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Last year's prize is not only still alive but has necessitated the purchase of a TEN gallon tank and filters by the caseload. I'm threatening to donate him to my sister-in-law's Koi pond this spring as he is well over FIVE inches long and eats like a piranha. I'll get a picture up soon of Ditto the mutant goldfish.

Just a quick little closing thought. As I navigated the crowded halls of the grammar school I found the need to use the services of a rest room. The crowded conditions lead me to the plan to avail myself of the first one I encountered...which turned out to be the one located outside the kindergarten room.


After you stop laughing at the thought of me whipping out my camera in a junior sized stall, go ahead and read the directions. I am all in support of water management efforts but can someone please tell me who is the lucky soul who gets to teach this to the 5 year old students not yet reading proficient????

Friday, January 28, 2011

FFF-.....

Well, Nora made it our choice so I chose Flashback Friday!! To see what others chose you can go to Nora's site and check them out. Meanwhile, here's my flashback......


We used to go to DisneyWorld......ALOT!! It would be back in the days of film photography. Yes, I'm old. I come across stacks of pictures that I want to scan into the computer but then rarely take the time to actually do just that! There has been this one particularly annoying stack that insists on sliding off the pile and onto the keyboard...just begging for attention! This particular series tells a story.

Once upon a time there were two families who used to spend their vacations together at Disney World. The cousins were very tight! They'd do everything together!!! The year Julia turned 3 years old they happened to be at the mouse's house. Julia had a very favorite character....


So, the two families went to the Crystal Palace character meal where the main man was appearing for the birthday celebration. After a big birthday hug from the Pooh himself the birthday girl was given a special birthday treat....


Much to the chagrin of the BFF/Cousin Deirdre who was used to getting everything Julia got! Notice...Julia was much more enthused by the fact that she had the "real live autograph" from Winnie the Pooh while Deirdre eyed that petite piece of baked goods.


It was just more than a girl could bear!!!!!! Sitting right next to the BFF/Cousin who is supposed to share everything and ....NADA....zip....zilch...how dare she?!?!? [note the front of the fleece- it was 80 degrees but Julia INSISTED on wearing it so Pooh would "just know how much I love him!] Anyhow, not to worry. The moms stepped in and cut that little bitty birthday cake into halves with Julia's sweet natured blessings and the broken heart was mended and.....


The BFF/Cousins spent all the rest of their birthdays happily ever after!



Wednesday, January 26, 2011

So Spoiled?

Picture the following scene...

Large and noisy art room at a grammar school filled with 4 air compressors humming/buzzing/roaring as lines of second graders shift from foot to foot and nervously chat amongst themselves. Trailing from one of the five temporary dental operatories is a particularly boisterous line of children. Two women at the station are talking low and steadily as one dictates to the other the conditions found in the gaping mouth of another child laid out on their exam chair. The woman recording the dictation turns slightly and gently reminds the children that they are still in school and to whisper among themselves rather than the loud conversations they had been holding. As the line of children fall back into order, one little boy hops from foot to foot and grins from ear to ear and leans forward from his line to whisper in an exaggerated manner, "Oh thank so very much dentist ladies!"

Now let me tell you readers, this is so not a normal reaction that it cause me to look up and smile. He was genuinely glowing with happiness! He went on to say, "I am so so so happy for this!" His manner was like a child opening Christmas gifts! You'd think he was about to receive this....


or maybe this....


or these even??? 


But NO he was THRILLED to have been given this.....


Because as he went on to inform us, "My other one got old and broken and we are out of money so I've been brushing like this..." as he goes on to mime using the side of his index finger. Not on a medical mission to Guatemala....no I was in a school in a Chicago suburb.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Behind the scenes...

My fellow bloggers can attest to just how much of our lives do not make it into posts! For reasons of every color and stripe ranging from privacy to monotony, there are things I just do not choose to articulate let alone photograph. Today's post will be a study in how to cover a topic near and dear to my heart without breaking any laws or regulations. As a WARNING I must say that there will be disturbing images found below so stop now if you have a squeamish stomach!!!! I  must also state that NEITHER of the photographs are taken by myself or depict an actual patient of mine!!! I Googled them so I could have visual impact to my words. Now I'm thinking that about covers all the necessary disclaimers so here's the post.

It is no secret that I am a dentist. I worked in a private practice when I first graduated from dental school. As the junior associate I was given the privileged of handling all of the after hours emergency calls and the 'honor' of assuming the contract that the practice had with the local jail. Yes, one day a week my waiting room was filled with men in shackles waiting to get a tooth, or two, or three pulled!!! At the time I was grateful for the money but resentful of the limited scope of dental care I was being allowed to perform. Now, more than 20 years later and decidedly wiser, I am beyond grateful for the experience as it took a sheltered suburban brat out of her insular little world and exposed her to the knowledge that life is not absolute...not black OR white...not good OR bad...not right OR wrong...not happy OR sad ...well you get the idea. The inmates taught me about mistakes in judgment due to ignorance not evil. The public aid patients taught me about social injustice and the collateral victims. The phobic patients taught me about the gray part of the emotional spectrum. Then in one of those moments that unexpectedly change your life, I discover that the foster child currently living with my parents was in jeopardy of being expelled from school because neither my Mom or her caseworker could find a dentist in our AFFLUENT county who would accept the public aid card... and therefore she could not get the required dental exam for the school's records! The practice I was working in at the time did take the public aid card but was located 40-50 miles away. My Mom called to ask if I could bring the child with me to work one day and do the required exam so she wouldn't miss any days of school?

The rest, as they say, is history!! I told my Mom to tell the caseworker that if she wanted to gather together all of her clients and bring them all on one day that I would do all the exams. The caseworker told her supervisor. The supervisor called the local health department with whom she had organized a "Back to School" fair which gathered a bunch of services together into one location to help the foster children and working poor of the county. The local health department called me since they were in need of dentists in the 'health' portion of the fair. I went and worked that night at the event and a month later I signed a contract to be an "On call" dentist with the health department. That was 17 years ago! In the intervening years I became a "contract employee" of the health department, got married, tried fertility treatments, left private practice, and adopted two daughters.

Well, that was my longest introduction to date for a post!! To the meat of the matter. My job with the health department involves going into the schools of our county and performing exams on children who's parents have filled out waivers. Everyone who fills out the waiver gets a FREE exam! Based on age, health, income, grant requirements, and a bunch of other factors, some children will qualify for some or one of the other services which include cleanings, sealants, fluoride treatments, and minor dental restorations. I work with a marvelous group of hygienists and assistants who not only perform their professional services but also pack/unpack, set-up/take down, and maintain a van full of portable equipment. I am the Prima Donna. I show up once they are set-up and I leave once all the exams are completed for the day. Some days that means I'm home before lunch and others mean I go back multiple days to the same school. I never really know which it is going to be until the day before I start a school and the office calls with the number of signed waivers?!?!?


Today I saw about 100 of these kind of mouths.....


and about 60 of these kind of mouths!!!

That's right, you read and saw what you read and saw. I saw 160 children's mouths today!! Sadly, almost none were caries free. I come home with a body wearied and a mind numbed by the scope of dental care given and yet NEEDED by the children of my county. I come home to two more children who need my driving, cooking, cleaning, homework assistance, hugging, and kissing skills. I probably won't sleep for tilting at windmills of social and economic injustices....
Is it any wonder that a certain blogger has nothing left but a shallow post about Gorilla Gardening or Lido Beach longing? So much easier to figure out where to get cheap seeds and how best to plant them than finding solutions to  poverty and corporate corruption.......

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Guerrilla Gardening...

coming soon to a lonely patch near you???? January 23rd with temperatures of 15 degrees and falling and I'm talking about gardening! While it may seem kind of early to start promoting a May 1st event I just fell like I should give you time to consider and prepare.....


The goal is to plant as many sunflower plants in abandoned patches of ground or public spaces that could use some floral sunshine as we can in a day! I've just come across this organization called Guerilla Gardeners and I simply loooooove the idea. This is the fifth year they are hosting this event! Last year over 6000 people the world over participated and some of their efforts can be seen here. I will definitely be participating this year!

Many a time I have looked at a neglected exit ramp or median and thought  "How much nicer it could be with  some wildflowers or perennials!" As I read the blog on the Guerrilla Gardeners site, I immediately thought of an exit ramp near my house that is edged by a motley collection of backyard fences that could use a sweep of sunflowers! I'll need the time between now and then to figure out the best time of the day to strike and what variety of sunflowers to plant....too bad hollyhocks take two years to flower as those would be even more perfect for this spot!!

The seed catalogs are out. Can you stock up on seeds and join me in promoting the event? Think I have the germ of an idea to turn this into a 'challenge' with a give-away as a 'reward'. Hmmmm....

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Surely it's not Saturday???

Ha! Thought I was going to falter on my last day of the challenge?!?!? Too close to the finish line to let that happen. Cannot believe that it is already Saturday and that in less than 24 hours we will know if we have to plan a Super Bowl Bash to celebrate a Bears win! Fingers crossed here in this house!!!!!!


Just a quick update on my Etsy Shop...


I have been working on some spring and summer outfits this week. Not quite ready for a photo shoot of the finished products because I want to have a bunch to load at once to improve the 'vibes' on my site.


As excited as I am to be working with some cute children's prints it is even more exciting to know that I can now edit the pictures to add a bit of 'pop' to the site!!!


Just a hint of things to come!!!!